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FrameworksThe Source Inquiry

The Source Inquiry

A framework for separating what happened from the story, assumption, and identity we attached to it.

Overview

The Source Inquiry helps you see what is shaping the outcome beneath the surface.

A framework for separating what happened from the story, assumption, and identity we attached to it.

The Source Inquiry helps you see what is shaping the outcome beneath the surface.

The elements

  1. 1

    What happened?

    Describe the event plainly, without motive, blame, or explanation.

  2. 2

    What did I assume?

    Identify the beliefs that shaped the decision and whether they were tested.

  3. 3

    What did it reveal?

    Separate evidence about reality from the conclusion you want to draw.

  4. 4

    What did my reaction reveal?

    Notice ego, fear, attachment, defensiveness, and identity.

  5. 5

    What must change?

    Turn the insight into a revised belief, test, boundary, or decision.

How to use it

  1. 1

    Write a factual description before explaining the event.

  2. 2

    Name the assumption that made the event surprising or painful.

  3. 3

    Look for evidence and patterns, then choose one specific correction.

Common pitfalls

  • Treating every setback as a cosmic message.
  • Using reflection as a substitute for action.
  • Confusing a plausible story with tested reality.

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